During this ADRHub free webinar, Sharon Strand Ellison will talk briefly about the dynamics of defensiveness and pitfalls in current “best Practices” in ADR communication. The remainder of the session will focus on skills sets for: Asking disarming questions Giving the kind of feedback that’s essential to maintaining a safe environment for all parties Making clear statements which deal with attitudes and behaviors than can undermine the process Setting firm boundaries when needed. Using this model, you can prompt clients to drop their defenses, often instantly, and engage in a process that goes beyond compromise to deeper levels of resolution Presenter’s Bio Sharon Strand Ellison is an international consultant, an award-winning speaker, and the author of Taking the War Out of Our Words This ADRHub webinar is free (but spots are limited) and will take place Wednesday, November 19, 2014 – 6 – 7:00pm Eastern Time (1 – 2:00pm Hawaii Time) For more information regarding the webinar, the presenter, and registration follow this link
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If you plan to participate in the November 15, 2014 Ceeds of Peace workshop, please read the following message by Dr. Maya Soetoro-Ng, Dr. Kerrie Urosevich and Lisa Taylor, Ceeds of Peace Executive Director. ~~~ We at Ceeds of Peace hope you are all doing well. This is a friendly email to say hello and remind you of the second (and last for 2014 on Oahu) Ceeds of Peace workshop, this coming Saturday – November 15th. NEW & IMPROVED LOCATION – University of Hawaii, West Oahu campus at 91-1001 Farrington Highway in Kapolei – very easy to find. Located just off H-1, only 25-30 minutes from Honolulu. This is not a big campus like UH Manoa – there are only 5 main buildings so you won’t get lost! We are in the new Multi-Purpose Room on the 2nd floor of the Campus Center (building C) – just a few steps from the parking lot. Elevator and stairs to get to the 2nd floor. Air conditioning and good chairs for comfort! PARKING – Visitor Lot A is easy to find – enter the campus and veer right at the grassy round-about (driving circle) and the parking lot will be on your right. Park in any stall that does not say “permit required” (there are many open stalls). Walk across the road you just drove in on, to the Campus Center and go to 2nd floor. MAP – click here TIME – Registration and breakfast from 8:00-8:30am; program will start at 8:30am and end at 3:30pm for all attendees except DOE teachers getting PD credit. BRING – Any materials that you were given at our first workshop on 9/13/14, including your participant folders; any materials related to your Peace Action Plan(s); the “Reflection” homework – see below; minds ready to learn! (new attendees,…
Betrayal is one of the toughest feelings our clients can endure, characterized by strong emotions and broken spirits. How do we coach clients who have experienced the deep pain of betrayal, whether it is the result of an overt violation of promises, or by covert deceit or hostilities? How do we help with betrayals that have taken place in boardrooms and offices of business or the living spaces of homes? And just as importantly, how do we help clients explore and repair relationships with the Self and with others? In this session Linda Dobson, Master Certified Coach (ICF) and accredited Conflict Coach (JIBC), shares elements of Neuroscience, Emotional Intelligence, and therapeutic models in order to Examine the many facets of betrayal Learn how to be even more effective working with this challenging aspect of conflict When: Thursday, November 13, 2014 at 1:00 – 2:00 p.m. Eastern (8:00 – 9:00am Hawaii Time) How to participate in this free ACR event
To celebrate 2014 Conflict Resolution Day, displays of relevant and foundational books related to Conflict Resolution were displayed at the: Hamilton Library and UH Bookstore, both on UH Manoa’s campus Hawaii State Public Library Main Branch downtown Honolulu
On October 15, 2014 Kirsten Rosa, assisted by Katie Ranney, presented Technology Tools for Collaborative Dialogue, a free webinar held at the Mediation Center of the Pacific (MCP) and cosponsored by ACR Hawaii, the Mastunaga Institute for Peace and Conflict Resolution, MCP, and the Hawaii State Bar Association ADR Section. During that webinar, Kirsten talked about and demonstrated the following topics: 1 – Tools for Streamlining Internal Team Communication Video Conferencing Document Sharing Online Scheduling 2 – Tools for Engaging Stakeholders and Participants Online Surveys Online Polling Tools Brainstorming Tools and Virtual Whiteboards Community/Stakeholder Engagement Platforms Here is the 78-min video recording of the entire webinar. Thank you Kirsten Rosa. Great job!
Transformative Dialogue is a unique way of working with communities experiencing conflict. Its goal is to change the quality of interactions between members in the community and help community members decide for themselves what to do about their situation. Organized by the Association for Conflict Resolution, this teleconference will explore the following questions: How is the process of a Transformative Dialogue defined? Is there a role for problem-solving in Transformative Dialogue? What does a Transformative Dialogue facilitator do that differs from others who facilitate community-based interventions? In what ways do participants’ roles change? What happens to the broader goals of peace and reconciliation? How can an intervener document the changes that result from a Transformative Dialogue? PRESENTERS Erik Cleven, Assistant Professor of International Relations at Saint Anselm College in Manchester, New Hampshire Judy Saul, ADR practitioner with almost three decades of experience in mediation, facilitation and training WHEN – Thursday, November 20, 2014 – 12:00pm – 1:00pm Eastern Time (7:00am – 8:00am Hawaii Time) For more information on how to participate in this teleconference click here
Here are some important announcements from Ceeds of Peace, an interesting project founded by ACR board member Kerrie Urosevich and Maya Soetoro-Ng. Their project was featured in this HuffPost article “Sowing the ‘Ceeds’ of Peace” written by Stephen Henry Fox. Kerrie and Maya recently gave a live TEDxMaui talk. Please check this link in late November to watch their entire talk. After the first workshop for the 2014-15, which took place on September 13, 2014, there are 3 other “Ceeds of Peace” workshops coming up: Oahu – UH West Oahu in Kapolei – November 15, 2014 West Hawaii/Kailua Kona – Kealakehe High School Library – December 6, 2014 and January 17, 2015
Organized by the Werner Institute at Creighton University’s School of Law, Cyberweek is the annual free virtual conference on Online Dispute Resolution. This year it will take place from Monday, November 3 to Friday November 7, 2014. As you can see their program is packed with activities: e.g. webinars and open forums. Cyberweek organizers expect that their event will be attended by over 1000 participants: mainly ODR/ADR practitioners, students and teachers. In order to participate in Cyberweek, you just need to register online
Cyberweek, the annual free virtual conference on Online Dispute Resolution, will take place next week – from Monday, November 3 to Friday November 7. As you can see, their program is packed with activities: e.g. webinars and open forums. Cyberweek organizers expect that their event will be attended by over 1000 participants: mainly ODR/ADR practitioners, students and teachers. In order to participate in Cyberweek, you just need to register online
The Mediation Center of the Pacific “Psychological Types & Conflict” workshop on Thursday November 6th can improve your ability to recognize personality traits in clients and the conflicts between different personality types to minimize them and achieve the best outcome possible in your mediation. The Myers-Briggs indicators can help you discover what the components of your own personality are, and how they may be influencing how you conduct mediations. John Barkai was a member of MCP’s first mediator class, and he has been a Professor at the UH law school for many years. John has extensive experience in negotiating in various situations and cultures. When and Where Thursday, November 6, 5:30-8:30pm – Kukui Center Conference Room – 245 N. Kukui Street, Suite 103 – Honolulu FREE for active MCP volunteer mediators. RSVP – Seating is limited and the RSVP deadline is October 31st. If you are interested to attend this workshop, send an email to Nathan Nikaido nathan@mediatehawaii.org To view/print the MCP flyer click here