Aloha, A job opportunity announcement for the Center for Alternative Dispute Resolution, Director, is posted on the Hawaii State Judiciary’s website. Job duties and requirements, and other information can be viewed on the Judiciary’s Exempt Employment Opportunities webpage. If you are interested in this position, please email a cover letter, current resume, and references to: Recruitment@courts.hawaii.gov or by mail to Hawaii State Judiciary, Human Resources Department, 426 Queen Street, Honolulu, HI 96813. First consideration will be given to resumes received by Friday, July 23, 2021.
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Happy Spring CRA!
Good afternoon everyone and happy spring! During a season when birds are chirping and flowers are blooming, make time to take in all of the beauty that our planet provides us with every day. As the wise Echart Tolle says, “Look at a tree, a flower, a plant. Let your awareness rest upon it. How still they are, how deeply rooted in Being. Allow nature to teach you stillness.” This coming month we have quite a few events, so get ready to check your schedule! On April 7th, from 9:00 am – 11:30 am, there is a FREE Cyber-Conference on Dispute Resolution. This is the 11th annual conference and we will be hearing from incredible speakers such as: Lorenn Walker: Restorative Practitioner and Professor at University of Hawaii Harold Gatensby: Community Leader and Cirlce Peace-Maker, Tlingit First Nation, Raven Clan, Yukon, Canada Mahmoud Khalili: Madrid’s Bircham International University John Cooper: Confict Resolution Consultant in Afghanistan, Pakistan, Tanzania, and Kyrgyzstan Renata Valree: Former President of the National Association for Community Mediation, NCRP Professor, CSUDH Gerson Damiani: Director, Global Center for Peace Studies- University of Sao Paulo, Brazil The conference will be facilitated by Dr. Brian Jarrett and supports the work of those building safer and healthier communities all over the world. Further, the American Bar Association (ABA) is hosting a conference with a hybrid model with in-person programs and events in Los Angeles, CA as well as robust virtual options. The conference takes place from April 14-April 17. All in-person events will follow local and CDC public health guidelines and regulations. The theme of the 2021 Spring Conference is Agility, Disruption, and Reinvention: ADR in a New World. This past year we have witnessed non-violent and violent confrontations, all in a highly contentious political environment. The 2021 conference will examine how…
International Women’s Day
Happy International Women’s Day everyone! We hope you’re having a great start to the week. This is a reminder to love and uplift all of the women in your life. “Feminism isn’t about making women strong. Women are already strong. It’s about changing the way the world perceives that strength.” –G.D. Anderson For the rest of this month we have a few new events on the calendar. This week on Wednesday the 11th, we have an event entitled Workplace Collaboration taking place from 12:00pm – 1:00pm where we will hear from Donna R. Ching, Ph.D. who will teach us tools to help embrace workplace collaboration. On March 12th an event entitled Practice Makes Permanent: Next Level Bystander Communication Skills is taking place from 8:00am – 12:00pm. We will be practicing our communication skills with Kimberly Dark, an award winning writer and storyteller who wants you to reclaim your power as a social creator to make the world a better place. The workshop is $50 and you must’ve participated in one or more of these prior trainings: Brilliant Bystander Unconscious Bias Linguistic Re-Framing Further, on March 16th from 12pm-1:30pm we have an event titled Beyond the Mute Button which will have us rethinking the need for physical presence in dispute resolution. This is an awesome free event where we will hear from many important mediations, lecturers, and facilitators. The last event on the calendar for this month is on March 18th and it’s entitled What is Excellence? Approaches to Merit and Distinction in Mediation. We will be hearing from Peter S. Adler Ph.D. who is a planner, mediator, facilitator, and a Principal at ACCORD3.0 which is a professional network of consultants specializing in foresight, strategy, and cooperative trouble-shooting. This is a free event taking place from 12:00pm-1:00pm, join us to hear…
Black History Month
Hi everyone! We hope you are all safe, happy, and healthy this week. As you may know, this month is Black History Month, an important time to further our understanding of power, privilege, supremacy, oppression, and equity. For the rest of the month, we’re proposing the 21-Day Racial Equity Habit Building Challenge from www.eddiemoorejr.com. For 21 days, we encourage you to do one action to educate yourself and to actively unlearn racial bias. On the website linked below, you can find many different options in order to read, listen, watch, and engage in order to understand white privilege and white supremacy. You can also find a printable tracking chart in order to help you stay on course! https://www.eddiemoorejr.com/21daychallenge We also have another upcoming event entitled Bridging the Divide. It will take place on February 19th from 1-2pm and will include a talk-story with past Peace corps Language and Cultural Facilitator Fahzeela Mohamed. We will also be hearing from Damian Owens who served as a Peace Corps Health Education Facilitator in Guyana from 2015-2017. Stephanie Sang, the Peace Corps recruiter at UH Manoa who also served in Madagascar from 2016-2018 will be moderating the event. Join us for this free event! Remember, in order to change the world, we need to take the action into our own hands. “There is no social change fairy. There is only the change made by the hands of individuals.” –Winona LaDuke Have a fantastic day!
Happy February everyone! It’s been a turbulent start to the year amid the COVID-19 pandemic, but as vaccines are distributed and numbers begin to lower, it seems like there might be an end in sight. This is a reminder to go about each day with conscious understanding, a kind and open mind, and to live with compassion for yourselves and for others. This month we have an event on Thursday, Febuary 11th from 10:00am to 11:30am on Zoom. It’s entitled “Aloha Response Call” and we will be hearing from speaker Pono Shim, a gifted storyteller who plans to share his leadership philosophies as well as offer opportunities to exercise your aloha muscle in order to help out our communities in need. We’d love to see you there! In the meantime, continue to promote peace within each of your lives. As Buddhist monk and peace activist Thich Nhat Hanh says, “If we are peaceful, if we are happy, we can smile and blossom like a flower, and everyone in our family, our entire society, will benefit from our peace” Have a wonderful day!
Aloha Response Call
Hawaiʻi State Judiciary • Center for Alternative Dispute Resolution Aloha Response Call Speaker: Pono Shim CEO, Oahu Economic Development Board & Gifted Storyteller Presented in Partnership With: Conflict Resolution Alliance (CRA); Hawaiʻi State Bar Association-ADR Section; Spark M. Matsunaga Institute for Peace and Conflict Resolution; and The Mediation Center of the Pacific Zoom Meet-up • Feb. 11, 2021 • 10:00 – 11:30 a.m. “The world will turn to Hawaii as they search for world peace because Hawaii has the key…And that key is Aloha!” –Auntie Pilahi Paki (treasured kupuna and author of the Aloha Spirit Law) During this time of imminent change, when words like unprecedented,existential, and challenge permeate social media and news headlines, the people of Hawaiʻi must rise to a call to aloha. Hawaiʻi Revised Statutes 5-7.5, “Aloha Spirit” obliges our leaders in state government to “contemplate and reside with the life force and give consideration to the “Aloha Spirit” which is defined as “the essence of relationships in which each person is important to every other person for collective existence.” It is the kuleana of all residents of Hawaiʻi, and especially those of us who work in state and city and county government, policy-making, and the field of Conflict Resolution, to embrace and model this native Hawaiian working philosophy in our personal and professional lives. Join Pono Shim in a special Zoom session where he will share his leadership philosophies that are rooted in his knowledge of aloha passed to him from Auntie Pilahi Paki. Mr. Shim will steer participants to see the pressing social issues individuals, organizations, and communities face today, and offer participants an opportunity to exercise their aloha muscle at the core of these issues where the real work must be done. REGISTER:https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/AlohaResponseCall Inquiries? Call: CADR (808) 539-4237 or email CADR@courts.hawaii.gov Speaker bio: Pono…
Special Zoom Training Event The Value and Perils of Nonverbal Communication Hosted on Zoom by The Center for Alternative Dispute Resolution • In partnership with Conflict Resolution Alliance Free and Open to the Public The Value And Perils Of Nonverbal Communication • Jan. 26, 2021 • 12 Noon – 2 PM Guest Trainer: Lisa Jacobs, Esq., Pono Divorce; Co-taught with Center for Alternative Dispute Resolution Trainer Anne Marie Smoke REGISTER NOW Or, copy and paste the following link in your browser search box to register: https://courts-hawaii-gov.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZApf-uhqDgoH9x3jOjiQXd7npWz3LTiFKuS After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the meeting. For more information or questions, please contact the Center for Alternative Dispute Resolution at (808) 539-4237, rather than simply replying to this message — Thanks! If you wish to request disability-related accommodations, or obtain directions, please email the Center for Alternative Dispute Resolution at cadr@courts.hawaii.gov or call the Center for Alternative Dispute Resolution at 539-4237. The Hawaiʻi State Judiciary does not warrant the accuracy or completeness of the information provided by the speaker. Nor do the speakers’ remarks necessarily reflect the opinions of the Judiciary. We hope to see you there!
Among life events causing the most stress and resulting medical illness, divorce ranks as second, only after death of one’s spouse holding the number one spot. Given this reality, if your marriage is beyond repair, you are faced with a stark choice. You can enter into the violent world of adversarial divorce—with its often long-term, extreme expense, and children-damaging results—or discover the more mindful and appropriate process called Collaborative Divorce to end your marriage in a more peaceful, cost-effective, private, and sustainable way. The challenge for most people detaching from a marital relationship is to be able to peacefully process the emotional divorce rollercoaster. This rollercoaster consists of extreme feelings of loss, rejection, anger, fear, sorrow, insecurity and anxiety on the one hand, while often mixed with positive feelings of separating from your spouse. The Collaborative Divorce process helps couples separate with more mindfulness and clarity. In the Collaborative Divorce process, the spouses and their respective Collaborative Attorneys all work together mindfully and appropriately to problem-solve and reach an agreement that meets the needs of everyone involved. At the beginning of the Collaborative Divorce process, the spouses and their Collaborative Attorneys sign a contract committing to resolve all issues without resorting to litigation or threats of court intervention. A Collaborative Divorce also addresses the financial issues and emotional rollercoaster, so the couple is highly encouraged to use a financial specialist and mental health professional whom expertly and efficiently support the family through the divorce process. Additional advantages to the Collaborative Divorce process are that it is faster and more economical for complex divorces, particularly where considerable financial assets and children’s needs are involved. All relevant information is shared in team meetings, transparently and in a timely manner, so the divorce moves forward swiftly and privately. Hawai’i litigated…
With the 5:1 Kindness Challenge Commemorates Annual Intl. Conflict Resolution Day October 15, 2020 The Conflict Resolution Alliance (CRA) and four partnering organizations are asking the Hawaiʻi community to take a pledge of kindness—that is to perform five random acts of kindness each day for one month starting Oct. 15. Pledgers also commit to recognizing the kindness of others by posting videos or photos on social media that capture kind gestures happening around the community. The idea is to start a buzz about human goodness on social media, at the dinner table, or at the water cooler (at a safe distance of course) and to shift the collective focus away from the stories of disaster, destruction, and divisiveness we hear about in the news every day. There is science behind the challenge that shows how impactful one act of kindness can be. What separates healthy and happy relationships from miserable ones is a balance of positive to negative interactions. Think of it as a simple formula for building healthy relationships: It takes five positive interactions to make up for every one bad encounter you have with someone, a 5:1 ratio. Social psychologists call it the Golden Ratio. Even small simple kind gestures like a smile, a “thumbs-up” or holding a door open for someone can be banked for that one time your lesser angels take over. Beyond maintaining relationships, researchers from the University of Portland show that when we witness profound kindness our autonomic nervous system triggers an impulse to act altruistically toward others. This emotional state, called moral elevation, precipitates the urge to pay a kind act forward. Everyone is encouraged to participate in the 5:1 Kindness Challenge. By signing the pledge, participants also commit to spreading the word and getting at least one more person to pledge. The…
Please join us for a special event that Conflict Resolution Alliance (CRA) is sponsoring! This will be an encore presentation of “Indigenous Conflict Resolution: Practice and Integration” followed by a live questions and answer via zoom with the speakers on Friday, October 23 from 12 PM to 2:30 PM Hawai’i time. This event has been approved by the Hawaiʻi State Board of Continuing Legal Education for 2 CLE credits (1 CLE credit hour and 1 Ethics credit hour). Register at https://indigenousconflict.eventbrite.com. Program Summary: Indigenous conflict resolution practices, including Hoʻoponopono and native peacemaking, have been used by both Native Hawaiian and Native American groups to address conflict in families and the greater community. A distinguished panel of legal academics, practitioners, and peacemakers will probe the possibilities and implications of integrating indigenous conflict resolution practices in the practice of law and the court system. Co-Sponsors: Hawaiʻi State Bar Association Alternative Dispute Resolution Section, Ku’ikahi Mediation Center, Matsunaga Institute for Peace, Maui Mediation Services, The Mediation Center of the Pacific, and West Hawai’i Mediation Center. Special Thank You: The Hawai’i State Judiciary Center for Alternative Dispute Resolution, The King Kamehameha V Judiciary History Center, Native Hawaiian Bar Association, and ‘Ōlelo Community Media A copy of the event flyer is attached below. For questions regarding event logistics, please contact us at info@crahwaii.org.